What Is a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)?

If you’ve ever been told you’re “too sensitive” or you feel like you experience the world more intensely than others, you might be a highly sensitive person (also known as an HSP).

The term highly sensitive person comes from research by Dr. Elaine Aron, who found that about 15–20% of the population has a nervous system that processes sensory information more deeply. This isn’t a flaw, it’s just a trait, much like eye color or height.

Signs You Might Be an HSP

While only you can decide if the term resonates with you, common HSP experiences include:

  • Feeling deeply moved by art, music, or beauty

  • Becoming easily overwhelmed by loud noises, strong smells, or bright lights

  • Needing extra time to recover from busy or emotionally intense days

  • Sensing other people’s emotions strongly—sometimes before they say a word

  • Thinking deeply about life, relationships, and meaning

Strengths of Being an HSP

Being highly sensitive often comes with incredible strengths:

  • Empathy: Picking up on subtle emotional cues

  • Attention to detail: Noticing small things others might miss

  • Creativity: Bringing depth and originality to ideas

  • Deep connection: Forming meaningful relationships

Challenges HSPs May Face

Because HSPs process so much information, they can sometimes experience:

  • Sensory overload in busy or chaotic environments

  • Emotional exhaustion from absorbing others’ feelings

  • Difficulty setting boundaries when others expect constant emotional availability

Thriving as an HSP

  • Create buffer time between intense activities or social events

  • Limit overstimulation by adjusting lighting, sound, or your schedule

  • Practice boundaries by saying no when you need rest

  • Connect with other HSPs to feel understood and supported

The Bottom Line

Being a Highly Sensitive Person doesn’t mean you’re fragile, it means you experience the world in high-definition. With self-awareness and the right tools, your sensitivity can be one of your greatest strengths.

At Found we help highly sensitive people learn to honor their needs, set boundaries, and thrive in relationships and daily life.

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